Things Your Officiant Would Love to Know BEFORE the Ceremony

How to pronounce names.

Who's holding the rings.

Whether you're doing your own vows.

Exactly how you'd like to be introduced.

Who is walking with whom.

Whether there's anything happening during the ceremony that I didn't plan with you.

Any family dynamics I shouldn't discover while holding a microphone.

If someone important won't be there and you do, or definitely do not, want them acknowledged.

If you've changed your mind about anything. Even at the last minute.